Frdster = Blogger?

Friendster = Blogger?

i guess the "in" thing now is blogging, friendster also came up with their own blog thingy. It's even more convenient for those lazy pigs like KZY? hee...oh well, at least there are more things to do on frdster now rather den juz writing testimonials for others i guess.

Amazing Race "ROB & AMBER"

They are good!! Rest of the teams hate them! especially the gay partners.. urgghh i hate those two gays. But this season is fun to watch becos of them, their strategies and all! *thumbs up* i hope they will outwin, outlast and outplay the rest of the teams! *cheer* Today's episode have lots of "accidents", 1st the old lady fell and her forehead was bleeding badly, but she asked her "hun" to cont' and find the clue. I almost tear at tt point of time lor.. her nv-say-die spirit kept them in the race!

Next "accident", the brothers trying to be funny and drove very fast when they were in S.Africa... their car flipped and one of the crew was injured.. so reckless lor... *angry* but can see tt they are very "shaken" by it. they are still in the race thou, at least beta den letting the last couple remain in the race.. they always push the blame to each other.. *dun like*

Procastinating.. as usual
planned to go home after my CEM paper... *i think i did fairly well td, felt beta den LLM at least* but got pulled down to Great World City by Dear HAKIM... treat me "lunch" and hot coco @spinelli.. had a great conversation with him thou... :) Once a soft-spoken guy, now he's like a social butterfly, saw him talking to many of his regular customers like good frds. Glad to see the big change in him.. much beta den he was in Sec 2.. hee.. carol shd noe the juicy story behind us. *giggles* sharks.. my CARAMEL APPLE CHEESE CAKE is still in da fridge!! i hope it'll still taste good tmr.. hvn tried and hakim said it's nice. shall be my lunch tmr bah.. =)

LAST PAPER!!! hit the books!! dun regret after for not putting enuff effort!! for me? im gona hit the shack instead.. hohohoh

Time Off vs breakup

Is there such a thing as Time Off?
been reading this guy's bloggy for quite some time, certain things he said made sense sometimes, so shall share this little entry from him. can visit his bloggy and read on the comments on this post if interested =)

"What is the difference between a break up vs time off?My friend that has been in a serious relationship with this guy for 5 years. Few days ago she told me that she needs a break. So I asked her what's wrong? I mean the guy is basically what she wanted! She said that she needs some time to date around, meet more guys, party. I know her bf isnt too happy with this idea but he respects her wishes. He hopes that by doing so, she will realize that taking a time off to test the waters is a big mistake. I think my friend is at the point where the relationship is "boring". She knows the guy too well and the 5 years they somehow spent too much time...so a change is needed. By meeting other guys, she is trying to see what is available men are open in this market. I think in someways, time-off is really a break up.When a guy/girl or both break up a relationship, there are several reasons. Either one or both cheated, mutual reasons, the guy/ girl just couldnt stand something about the other person, been together too long, liked some other person, etc. (the list goes on).

When people say they are taking time off, I think its in terms of breaking up. It is the less painful and obvious way. People take time off because they have been with their bf/gf got so long that they feel they are missing out in many of the opportunities they have now. So why be taken when you can find better guys/girls? What usually happens is people that take time off end up dating other people and they end up finding someone else. Then eventually they tell their bf that its over and let it be... hence making things become mutual.

There are many of you that disagree that taking time off does not happen that way. Many would say that they need time off because too much quality time has been devoted to your compaion. In a sense, you are looking for space. Space meaning more time for yourself such as: hanging out with your boys/girls. I dont think taking "time off" should be those reasons. If you want to see less of each other talk it out. If both of you like each other things can be done."

2 more paper to go... it's been a drag, my heart is no longer on my exams. haiz... back to studies bah...

14th Month and counting

To our 14th Month and more to come!




Darling miss my long hair? hee... it's gona grow back to tt length very soon lah, dun nag ler ok! *huggies* Actually, my blog (i.e. from Xanga to Blogspot) see us through our relationships, from sadness to happiness, from honeymoon period to the present stage. And this, is one of my fav pics that marks our journey together.

*muacks* Love ya darling!

Twinkle

Twinkle Twinkle little star

here's a quick one before i go and hv my dinner with carol, hvn seen her for a long long time!!!

Wed 23 March




isn't she cute?!! 5 mths old beagel and she's very active! more like a cross breed of jack russel.. lolz.. a vacuum machine too! sniff my whole house when she got here.. =D her weakness is food!! when u hv bacon bits in ur hands she will do anything u asked her to do. sit, stand, down, roll!! hahaz.. it's fun to hv dogs around, they are juz so adorable.






"twinkle shake hand"



lying very still cos she was told to do so.. hee. and a roll!!!



pls gime more food....



Me with the "juz woke up" look, my frd came over like 9am in da morning lor... slpy.. (carol, it's hong yan's dog oh.. very cute rt?hee)



A white spot near her bottoms... tt's why named twinkle? lolz..

Thur 24 March
Completed my ET paper, 3 more to go. It wasn't tt bad, every tips tt was given came out, if only i spent more time studying it? haiz.. it's always the same old story i guess, leaving to the very last min and start to ask urself the "if only" questions. If there are "if onlies" in the world, it'll be chaotic! dun asked "if only", do the things u need to do before u regret.


Alrty! time for dinner! if not carol will nag at me for being late... heee... study pple! dun procastinate!

Messy

Study??

it's gona be a messy entry, readers beware...

Wkend in Msia
Before i start mugging for my exams, i thought it would be nice to spend some time with my darling. Well, i had a great time, seafood dinner at our usual pasir gudang place. The food was delicious and cheap! RM70 ++ for crabs, prawns, malay mee, veg, big "xi ham". Eat until very very full *pat tummy*. haiz.. the story begins here, i dropped my hp in the water while in the toilet! [not toilet bowl! there's a pail of water in the toilet for flushing] i put my hp on the wall ledge and when i swing my hand "doopppp" the hp dropped into the water!!! *panic* i quickly fish out my hp and off it. wen i got back to our table, i feel like crying liao. there's water inside the screen too!! darling saw me so sad, helped me shake some water out. I didn't talk much on the way home... trying to dry the fone with the air-con in the car. :(

got home, tried to unscrew the hp casing but dun hv the special screw-driver, so used hairdryer instead. *moody* dun dare to on the fone even though my darling assured me tt it's gona be fine, i waited till the nx day den i switced it on. It works!! im so glad lah, dun hv the extra cash to buy a new fone ler lor.

Summon @ NP library


this is my summon from the aunty with pong pong hair.. lolz.. go read VAL's blog, she got all the juicy story.

Diving!!
The dates are confirmed, 8-10 april will be goin diving @ Tioman, Malaysia! Im so excited abt this trip! Been wanting to do this for a very long time! Further more i've my frds like Jimmy aka crab and Ray aka Pig on the trip too! hee.. it's gona be so fun! Oh no, im so excited, i can't study now!! lolz

part of TB21 @ NYDC
Pictures!! hot from the camera!! alrt.. i took awhile to load the pics up.. no time mah.. fannie, dun complain lah.. now u can see them liao.. and laugh ur heads off. heeee



The future of Singapore! Successful biz women in the making! heee...




LyLy and me!! Will we see ourselves in such attire again?? heee



Say no evil, See no evil, Hear no evil.... who's the devil here??



NYDC here we come!!! but tt toopid head spoilt the pic... *irritating*



trying too hard to make funny faces...



Tammy!!! my project partner who's always so reliable! gona miss our ruby days huh! hee



we three gals in the middle (lyly, me, fannie) were surrounded by SADAKOs!!! ahhhhhhh they look so scary!!



Anne, dun poke ur own eyes lei...



trademark actions by Lim LyLy, copyrighted too!! heee She's number 1, no one eva come close.



[Bruce Lee daughter Priscilla Lee] *hiek yoooohhhhhhhh*



xuewei!! you very extra lei... such a failure in making funny faces!!



End of the day, we laughed so much, we gave our tummy a very good exercise! More of such outing k!! TB21 spirits never die!

IM TIRED!!

HUNGRY

School aka Ngee Ann Poly, the mention of it sends shiver down my spine. Day in day out in sch doin project. RUBY, our favourite discussion room in the library, becomes our study room as well. Gossips, bitching, screaming (softly), hair-pulling moments, sitting with one leg up, etc. All these bring smile to my groomy days actually.

With Rose, LyLy, and ever lame XueWei in Ruby now, i guess all of us can't con't in our report anymore. XueWei is entertaining us with her "cold" jokes, and sometime she will self-entertained too when no one bothers to response. lolz.. Slpt at 430 this morning, finally finish my ET webby. Inserted flash, rollover image and colours to my pages! Spent two days to complete, i think it's quite an achievement lor, did it single-handedly. today it's just another slpless nite ler lor.. hv to complete my CEM report so i can do my IBS final call on thur. Im both physically and mentally tired, need a break desperately. Can't wait for my wkend to come, darling must pamper me k! (If you reads this blog by then =P)


Nite Safari
Memorized half of my Chinese commentary script, went for a few trainings, tried speaking tru the mic. Actuali i sound quite alrt, cos initially i tot i sounded very kiddish lor. Have to finish memorizing everything by sun for another training. With so many things to be done, im so drained out aredi, still hv time for such things? I wonder really..

oh ya... im hungry, reali hungry now. Want to go shopping, eating, play and hv fun!!!! I miss those days.

WhY MeN LoVe WoMeN

A little article to share with all of you...

Why Men Love Women?

Five surprising reasons men are happy in a relationship.

Don't be fooled by the male ego. Men look for more in a relationship than an attractive women who will cook him a good meal and wash his clothes every once in a while. What he really needs is your admiration.

He needs to communicate with you.
A lot of men need to be in a relationship more than women do. Surprising? Not really, when you think about it. Women usually have close relationships with their friends. They talk about health problems until they feel better. But men don't. As Helen Fielding's character, Bridget Jones, says, 'Women have emotions and men have football.' Men are competitive and so, in general, they rarely share their emotions or problems with each other, as they think it makes them look too weak. When he needs to open up and talk about his feelings, guess who he eventually shows his vulnerable side to? You!

He wants to be your hero.
Knowing that he can make someone else happy makes him feel good inside, because he has the power to change things. And what bloke doesn't secretly want power of some sort? At least if he can't always be top dog at work, he can be a star at home. Instinctively, he aspires to be Spider-Man or Superman ?to be your hero, to be able to make things right: to be appreciated, to be someone's knight in shining armour. So when you are disappointed or unhappy, he feels responsible. What matters is that you are happy and then he's got one less thing to worry about. Strange but true.

He strives to make you happy
The number one reason men leave relationships is because they feel as though they can't meet their partner's needs. This makes them feel inadequate, and it makes them feel as though there's no way their partner can feel respect for them. For women, communication seems to be the top priority in keeping the relationship going ?but, quite honestly, men don't understand this constant need to talk about things over and over.

For men, the relationship is a success if they feel respected and if they make their partner happy. This is why a new conquest is exactly that ?he feels as though he is in charge ?he is once again someone's knight in shining armour.

If you resent him because you feel overworked and under-appreciated, stop doing so much ?you are probably destroying your relationship! He doesn't want to feel responsible for you rushing around, worn into the carpet, and most men really don't notice whether the housework has been done or not. What they want is respect and appreciation. 'All we really want from women,' a (male) friend recently told me, 'is for you to smile at us.' (And probably one other thing, if he thought about it for longer than a millisecond.)

Sex makes him feel loved
Sex has the same effect on men as romance does on women. So the reverse is also true: no sex = no love, no approval, no acknowledgement. They get that same sad, unloved feeling that you get when you don't get flowers, your partner looks at other women or ignores you.

You are his (secret) reason for living
He needs you because you inspire him to do better ?he has someone to do things for, goals to reach, a reason to go out and conquer the world. What's the point of being disgustingly rich and powerful if there's no one to share it with? What he needs is the gift of you.

Hmmz.. how much is true? probably need some guys to verify them yeah? hee...

Falling leaves...

Falling Leaves...
panda eyes now, didn't slp well last nite..(4 in the morning?) n woke up like 9 cos hvg breakie with daddy. Now, drinking honey milk tea in the library cafe and blogging... quite relaxing... at least give me some time on my own, to think abt things. I like the atmosphere, sitting by the glass windows, watching falling leaves, cars passing by, people around me talking and laughing with their frds. I like the solitude, it's been such a long time i guess. For the past months, my mind have been occupied with something else, suffocating others and myself. I took a step back, view the big picture, came to a term i can accept. Things are improving, for myself at least. Probably i should learn meditating as well, will hv healing and calming effect bah.

Was hearing Class 95 this morning, they were talking about kissing i guess. Nothing obscene here, just talking abt the meaning of kissing and why isit important to give ur love one kisses whenever u can. Maybe guys may find it mushy or embarassing to kiss their love one in public, but to a gal, a kiss on the cheek or even a small peck on the lips could mean so much. It shows appreciation of love, missing him/her, or just purely showing affection to ur love one. IF an apple a day keeps the doctor away? Then a kiss a day keeps all the quarrels away. hee....

tt's the difference btw guys n gals ba, gals are the more emotional being where guys are more rational. How abt we challenge the norm and put more emotion to the guys and add rational to the gals. Maybe the world would be a better place? =P

Hmmzz...so much of my tots of the day... take care dudes and dudettes!! *muacks*

Moulin Rouge

The greatest thing is to LOVE and be LOVE in return...


Channel 5 showed this musical love story that never fails to blow me away. Nicole Kidman was stunningly beautiful in this movie. Her voice... gosh... makes me love her even more. The songs were so passionate that i can feel with the lyrics. I LOVE THIS MOVIE! Wun get bored watching all over again. =) Gotta dig out the OST now.. hee...

A new week begins, gona be a "stay-in-sch-till-late" week again. 3 more reports, a website and a stand-up presentation to go, exam is just round the corner. Packed and fruitful week indeed, dun hv time to take a breath n relax. BUT!! We are master of our time, not the other way round. Learn to manage and manage it well, i believe there'll be a breather in the midst of all the activities.

Hang on there fellow tourism students! A well-deserved break awaits us in 3 wks time!

Stressed up i guess...

Didn't much rest ytd.. only slpt at 6am this morning. Was doing my proposal, duno why i took so long, guess im just too fussy on how things shall look ba. Woke up 4 hrs later n prepared for my Sales call 2. Didn't get the result i wanted, but guess im not that polish as a sales person, not convincing enuff. Need to learn some skills from my darling ler.. rt? hee..

Misssss him so much. The last time i saw him was a week ago or more? Im so busy myself, i dun even hv a decent night of rest. I need lotsa love!! and hugs.. make my stress go away when i noe there's someone to care for me.

gona nap ler.. at my dad's office.. heading for church later... i think i'll doze off during sermons lei. haiz... tt's bad..

Late night in school

Ngee Ann Atrium

The last time i stayed in sch till so late doin project was last year, doing my IEF project. That was a killer, around me were fellow course mates doing the same report too. This time, we are rushing not one, but 4 reports and 1 IBS. *pull hair* Well, we reward ourselves by ordering Canadian 1-4-1, everyone is hungry.... hungry pple can't work, their minds will be bongus, can't think, can't write, can't produce quality stuff.

why am i blogging? juz to relax awhile... n get my mind off those horrible reports. IM GOIN CRAZY!!!!